Parker Nichols, a Civil War hero

It is seldom that I find a tintype photo that is identfied with the sitter’s name, not to mention his date of birth and death. So when I saw this tintype on sale on Etsy, I had to get it. It came to me from the United States. I was curious to find out about his life. And it wasn’t difficult to find him in the genealogy papertrail.

Parker Prescott Nichols was born on November 23rd, 1846, in Troy, Rensselaer, New York. His father Henry Nichols was an iron worker/heater in Troy and in the 1865 census listed as a land-owner. Parker was the third of altogether 9 children.

When Parker was just 18 years old, he was drafted to serve as a private of the 7th Regiment, New York Heavy Artillery on the side of the Union in the American Civil War. He was taken prisoner in June 1864 in Petersburg, VA. His obituary (please see the end of the blogpost for full view) says:

“His war experiences included engagements in and about Washington, D.C., during the defense of the nation’s capital against the Confederate Army. He was also taken prisoner several times. He was honorably discharged in 1865.”

After the Civil War, Parker became a heater at the Iron Works in Troy, like his father had been (according to the 1870 census). He married twice. Although I have not been able to confirm it, I believe Parker’s first wife Carrie née Smith might have died from complications at child birth. She passed away in 1872, in the same year their son Frederick Paul Nichols was born.

In 1879, Parker Nichols re-married. In the 1880 census, Parker and his wife Elizabeth H. née Barto is found to be living at 777 Batavia Street in Troy. His oldest son Frederick Parker is found to be living with Parker’s parents Henry and Jane Susannah Nichols also in Troy. Perhaps Parker’s unemployment at the time and his new marriage might have been the reason why his 8-year-old son was not living with him at the time. Or perhaps it was just merrier at the grandparents’ house since several Frederick’s cousins also lived with his grandparents.

Frederick Paul fought in the Spanish-American War in 1898 and was killed by lightning in Tampa, FL, in 1898, during his service.

With his second wife Elizabeth, Parker had 8 more children:

— Inez Anna Leathem (1880-1968). Inez married James Francis Leathem in May 1899 in Troy and the couple had two children: Myrtle Francis Lawyer née Leathem (1900-1994), and James Francis Leathem Jr. (1905-1976). In the 1930s, Inez and James were living in Trenton, New Jersey. Inez’ grandchildren might be alive today.

— Henry Bennett Nichols (1881-1888)

— Parker Prescott Nichols Jr. (1883-1954) married Helen Rosaline née Defreest (1894-1945) in 1911 and the couple had 5 children: Robert Nichols (1912-1932), Charles Geller Nichols (1915-1980), Clifton Parker (1917-1960), Ralph William (1920-1997), and Raymond Edwin (1924-2004). Parker Jr. was a WWI veteran (Click HERE for his draft card). He might also have living grandchildren.

— Elmer James Nichols (1884-1945) married Jennie Lillian née Payne (1887-1918) and the couple had 2 sons: Kenneth Elwin Nichols (1908-1969), and Elmer James Nichols Jr. (1917-2007). Elmer Sr. served in WWI. At the time of being drafted, he owned a vegetable grocery shop in Troy. Just by looking at the dates here, a bitter-sweet tragedy plays in my head: Elmer fought in WWI and amidst the horrors he probably saw in action, his second son Elmer Jr. was born. Elmer Sr. survived the war, returned home only to become widowed with two small children in 1918. Quite a bit of a dejá-vu with the story of his father, so heart-breaking! Elmer was drafted (or volunteered?) for WWII at the age of 57. He passed away in 1945, unfortunately I don’t know if in connection with WWII. Elmer’s grandchildren seem to be alive today.

— Anson M. Nichols (1885-1893)

— Charles E. Nichols (1887-1887)

— Robert K. Nichols (1888-1905). In 1905, Parker Sr. acted on behalf of his late son Robert and sued the Searle Manufacturing Company, Gardener and Cuff and Collar Factory in Troy (Click HERE to view the probate record). I have not found the death record of the 17-year-old Robert and therefore don’t know the cause of his death, but I suspect that it could have been an accident at the workplace of the young man which would explain why his father Parker sued the company as part of his probate proceedings.

— Emma L. Nichols (1890-1891)

In his last years, Parker and Elizabeth lived with their daughter Inez and son-in-law James in Trenton, New Jersey. Parker passed away on September 23rd, 1933, in Trenton, New Jersey, at the age of 86. I found his obituary and it speaks volumes. And it includes a photo of Parker Nichols in his last years of life! How absolutely cool is that!!! He kept his bushy moustache, too.

Source: Ancestry Click HERE

Having outlived 6 of his 9 children, widowed with a newborn after having fought in the Civil War and taken prisoner, and then to reach such an old age after having experienced so much loss and hardship in life, for me it is a sign of extreme courage and resilience. Rest in peace, Parker Nichols.

The original tintype photo of Parker Nichols is going home to his brother’s family where it will be cherished.

One thought on “Parker Nichols, a Civil War hero

  1. Theresa M. Wright says:

    This is my great-great grandfather. My grandfather is James Francis Leathem Jr.. He married Florence P. Plant/Leathem. They had only one daughter, Caroline Edith Leathem/Norris. She married Charles Victor Norris and they had three children. James E.. Norris, Kathleen E. Norris/Struck/Curtis, and Theresa M. Norris/Wright (myself). My family left New Jersey in December of 1962 and moved to California. My grandparents left a few years later moving through Arizona, Neveda and finally California. I was always very aware of my great-great grandfather because my grandfather was very proud of him. I even shared about him being a Civil War hero when I was in school. So this branch of the family lives on as well, because all of us have children.


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